When: March 29, 2004*Our 4th Anniversary
Where: Tagaytay
On our 4th Anniversary, we said “I do.” And surprised each other with vows we wrote ourselves. I couldn’t count the number of times I had to pause and cry.
His
I promise to take you on a lifelong journey
To share with you the adventures of traveling to distinct places
To summit, seas and cities
To wherever our feet may take us
From the serene and spiritual
To the muddy and mundane
We’ll take a bus to Baguio
A plane to Bangkok
Probably sail to Bali
Or go on a long train ride through Europe
We’ll eventually get our own car
Even if I hate driving
And you don’t know how
But I’d like to see you get on the steering wheel
Because I want to see you empowered as a woman
I’m really a man of very few possessions
So I cannot vow that we will live a rich life
But I promise we’ll live an enriching life together
In love and poetry
I love you.
Mine
Long before today, I’ve already vowed to love you
With all of me
All my life
I don’t exactly remember when I made the commitment
It could have been the moment I recognized the sign – George Street
That’s where I lived most of my life
It was as if the world was confirming how I felt –
That in you, I’ve truly found home
It could have been the moment I said yes
to your proposal
exactly four years ago
Because from then on, it was all or nothing for us
Or perhaps I made the vow to love you forever
During the amazing moments...
When you’d make me laugh despite the tough times
Or those days you’d surprise me with a poem
Or when you’d massage my hands
Without me asking for it
Or the moments you’d hold my hand so tight
I knew we would never ever let go
Or maybe it’s each day you’d take the danger side
Whenever we’d cross the street
When you’d let me have the window seat
When you’d hug me in the presence of others
When you’d bend your biases to give me flowers
Or maybe when you’d volunteer to do the dishes at my parents' place
Or when you’d bring me home from Quezon City to Antipolo every day
Even if you’re tired, sick or injured
Even through heavy rains and flood
Even if sometimes it would mean you’d be walking a kilometer from our house to the subdivision gate
I could have made the vow the day you decided to share my Faith
Or when you made me realize that despite the differences
We do walk the same earth
No, I don’t remember exactly when I made that vow
But yes, I have long committed
My love
My life
To you
And today, on our wedding, in the presence of our families and friends,
I strengthen that vow
My dearest J, I will love you
Like nothing else matters
**Photo: from our wedding album