26 June 2011

MY TOP RAINY DAY SOUPS

Finally, a dry day (but still a gloomy one) for Manila.

All those rainy days and nights made me crave for sabaw (But even on a sunny day, I'm such a soup person, so like my Papa).

My favorites, in random order (excluding my Mama's masasarap na sabaw na malapit ko nang matikman uli!):
  • Leslie's bulalo. Sinful. But always enough reason to drive to Tagaytay.
  • Via Mare's sinigang na baka. Perfect ang timpla ng asim! And the beef's so tender.
  • Recipe's bird's nest. Generous serving (I think it's good for five people so when hubby and I order this, ang dami talaga!). Has always been among my comfort food.
  • Sizzling Seafood's sinigang na ulo ng salmon. Salmon's among my top seafood favorites. This one's so affordable, only Php135, good for two (but because hubby's not into salmon, I have it all to myself)!
  • Max's hototay soup. Best way to start your fried chicken fest, hehe.
  • Pho Hoa's seafood noodle. Tastes so healthy. Love it more with loads of their hot sauce.
Above: Pho Hoa's seafood noodle

Above: Pho Hoa's hot sauce


What's your rainy day soup for the soul?

24 June 2011

PROUD WIFE MOMENT

You're all invited to my hubby J's first (group) photo exhibit, "Tilak Hettige's Dawn to Dusk 2," opening on Monday, June 27, at the Camera Club of the Philippines, Chino Roces Ave., Makati City.


National Artist Benedicto "Bencab" Cabrera will open the exhibit. Taray! *proud wife moment*

19 June 2011

LOVE LETTER FROM THE DEAD

I hope you don't find this entry morbid but death's hanging on my head...
A dear uncle died this week. And I just finished reading The Time Traveler's Wife (was so moved that I even watched the film for the second time).


A letter to be opened in the event of my death

December 10, 2006



Dearest Clare,

If you are reading this, I am probably dead...

Clare, I want to tell you, again, I love you. Our love has been the thread through the labyrinth, the net under the high-wire walker, the only real thing in this strange life of mine that I could ever trust. Tonight I feel that my love for you has more density in this world that I do, myself: as though it could linger on after me and surrounded you, keep you, hold you.

Please, Clare. When I am dead. Stop waiting and be free. Of me -- put me deep inside you and then go out in the world and live. Love the world and yourself in it, move through it as though it offers no resistance, as though the world is your natural element.

After my mom died she ate my father up completely. She would have hated it. Every minute of his life since then has been marked by her absence, every action has lacked dimension because she is not there to measure against. And when I was young I didn't understand, but now, I know, how absence can be present, like a damaged nerve, like a dark bird. If I had to live on without you I know I could not do it. But I hope, I have this vision of you walking unencumbered, with your shining hair in the sun. I have not seen this with my eyes, but only with my imagination, that makes pictures, that always wanted to paint you, shining; but I hope that this vision will be true, anyway.

We will see each other again, Clare. Until then, live, fully, present in the world, which is so beautiful.

It's dark, now, and I am very tired. I love you, always. Time is nothing.


Henry



-- excerpts of Henry's letter to Clare, "The Time Traveler's Wife"


Made me cry.

TRULY A TEAM

Hubby and I, we're my favorite team. Our collaborations at work, at home, and at play are always most fun and most fulfilling.


Here's one of our more recent team projects.


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"Taylor Fit"

Written as a FB note by my Hubby

Posted last June 12, 2011



It was a fine Sunday afternoon, with the sunlight dappling through the trees, falling gently on the green grass, seemingly playing with the shadows. We were beneath a cool canopy, breaking the twigs beneath our feet, throwing fallen flowers into the air. It was one of those memorable days when you must have a camera in hand to capture those fleeting moments. And there I was, happily shooting with my camera, taking pictures of Taylor Swift.


Well, not exactly. I was shooting my niece, E. In a Taylor Swift-inspired photoshoot. In a photostory conjured by my wife, A. I wanted to practice my photography. She wanted to practice her styling. And our niece wanted to model. E was channeling Taylor Swift. A was channeling Rachel Zoe. I was channeling Parc Cruz. E posed, A styled, I clicked.


Yes, it was one of those days, when we do something we love with people we love, on a fine Sunday afternoon.


Model: E

Stylist, HMUA, Voice Activated Light Stand, My Wonder Woman Wife: A (Me: *kilig*)

Photographer: J

Special thanks to our dear cousin, P, for making the shoot possible.




For more photos, visit my other blog, mylittleblackbookofstyle.blogspot.com

18 June 2011

TODAY'S GIFTS 061911

Today's Gifts:

1) 3-day weekend

2) Bed weather

3) Everything we're waiting for, dumarating isa-isa, on time. Project status: on track.

4) Proud of how my sis P is growing up. Her FB wall is filled with NASA articles and video clips (yes, she wants to be an astronomer) and Justin Bieber updates (yes, she caught the B-fever like every girl in the universe). She's a fun-loving nerd -- I love it! And today, Fathers' Day, she wrote the sweetest FB note for our Papa (It starts with "You're my hero, Papa..."). We must have done something right in raising such a wonderful child. *teary eyed*

5) My brother and I drove to the province this week, to attend the wake and burial of a beloved uncle who's suffered from cancer far too long. It was a blessing to see a family, in the midst of a tragedy, continue to live in love, unity, composure and complete surrender to God's Will. Bilib ako.

Above:
Uncle's hearse - a Hummer!
Sosyal!


6) After death comes life. Another pamangkin is coming our way! My niece S will be an "Ate" soon. We're all too excited! Yey!


God is so good.


Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.


17 June 2011

I GET BY WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM MY FRIENDS...

Don't you just love dates with long-time friends?

Had dinner with my U.P. barkada to welcome our balikbayan friend T. Food theme: Pinoy so we headed to Abe ("Where good friends meet" as their tagline goes), and then to Mary Grace for dessert.

Beyond Abe's lamb adobo, pork ribs adobo, crispy hito, kare-kare, fried tilapia, dilis rice and Mary Grace's cheese rolls, mas nabusog kami sa kuwentuhan.

The evening's highlights: at least five birthday songs, major 2011 career moves, the RH Bill, building a new home, Australia and Canada, dreaded phone calls, dorm life, feng shui, buhay government employee, and since we're all very showbiz -- Heart and Daniel (who were seated right beside us in Abe), Shirley Fuentes, Coco Martin, Kuya Germs and Birch Tree, and more.

Our sunod-sunod na dates have been very precious lalo na sa mga panahong ito. *wink*


Friends, this song's for all of you...

What would you think if I sang out of tune
Would you stand up and walk out on me
Lend me your ears and I'll sing you a song
and I'll try not to sing out of key

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends
Mm, I get high with a little help from my friends
Mm, Gonna try with a little help from my friends

What do I do when my love is away
Does it worry you to be alone
How do you feel by the end of the day
Are you sad because you're on your own

No, I get by with a little help from my friends
Mm, I get high with a little help from my friends
Mm,Gonna try with a little help from my friends

Do you need anybody
I need somebody to love
Could it be anybody
I want somebody to love

Would you believe in a love at first sight
Yes, I'm certain that it happens all the time
What do you see when you turn out the light
I can't tell you, but I know it's mine

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends
Mm, I get high with a little help from my friends
Oh, Gonna try with a little help from my friends

Do you need anybody
I just need someone to love
Could it be anybody
I want somebody to love

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends
Mm, Gonna try with a little help from my friends
Oh, I get high with a little help from my friends
Yes, I get by with a little help from my friends,
with a little help from my friends


31 May 2011

LOSING WEIGHT IS NO PIECE OF CAKE

Right after my weight loss entry comes a cake entry. Oh no.

I know we can't have our cakes and eat them too, literally and figuratively, but we couldn't help it. After having lunch at our favorite Uno restaurant (we had puree of green pea soup; flame broiled pork tenderloin medallion with lima and feta dressing; freshly-baked bread and iced tea), we took home three boxes of cakes -- two cheesecakes; one chocolate cake. Two boxes were shared with office friends, to celebrate hubby's "Miracle Birthday!" The other one was all ours. *wide grin*

Above:
Not one. Not two.
But three boxes of Uno cakes to go!

Above:
The best cheesecake in town!
Let it melt in your mouth.

Above:
Uno's Fallen cake.
Second to Cafe Bola's chocolate flourless cake.


What's your favorite cake?

30 May 2011

HOW HE LOST 25 LBS IN 5 MONTHS

BUT "WEIGHT," THERE'S MORE
Written by my hubby J as a Facebook note
Posted on March 28, 2011


I was at my fattest at 190 lbs. I had beer belly. And I was up by two sizes.

But in five months, I lost 25 lbs., 4 inches on my waist, and scaled down from an XL to an M.

So how did I do it? There are no short cuts to weight loss. There are no secret diets. There are no wonder drugs. It's just good old "right diet and proper exercise."

Here's a simple list, My Five Top Fives. This worked for me. It may not necessarily work for you.

My Top 5 Weightloss Workouts
  1. Walking – The first step to getting active. It takes 10,000 steps a day to begin losing weight. This is how I started to get back into shape, walking with my dorky Sketchers Shape Ups while malling.
  2. Running – Aside from continuing to strengthen my aerobic capacity, I had to build my mileage base. So I hit the treadmill every morning for 30 minutes. Then slowly increased my mileage, from about 2K, to 5K, to 10K. Then I joined road races. Every race motivated me to improve my personal record. My first 5K run was in October of 2010. I clocked in at a slow 40 minutes. But my PR improved by 3 minutes in my next 5K run the following month. Now, I can comfortably run 5K in about 30 minutes. That's still slow compared to my 20 minute-5K pace in the '90s. Last month, I joined a 10K run and clocked in a decent 67”.
  3. Boxing – This is a knockout workout. The intensity and interval training you get from boxing is just incredible. The usual routine at Elorde's goes something like this: 4-6 rounds, mitts; 2 rounds, speed ball; 2 rounds, swing ball; 2 rounds, heavy bag; 2 rounds, jump rope. Each round is 3 minutes long, with 1 minute rest periods between rounds.
  4. Weight Training – While walking, jogging, running, and boxing, are all primarily aerobic workouts, weight training is, what else, but anaerobic. Now that I've built a good cardio base, I needed to strengthen my muscles. Cutting weight with aerobic exercises only, coupled with a weight-loss diet, may lead to some muscle loss. So I hit the gym to lift weights, at least once-a-week, or as much as three times a week.
  5. MMA Conditioning Exercises – Not only did I want to get back into shape, I wanted to get back into fighting form. And the obvious inspirations are the modern gladiators in the octagon. The MMA exercises that I do are basically a combination of body weight exercises, plyometrics, kettlebell exercises, and medicine ball exercises. I always try to sneak in a few sets during my boxing workouts, or after a 5K run, or within my gym program.
My Top 5 Diet Dos and Don'ts
  1. Don't eat fake food. No to fast food, processed food, and canned goods. Go natural, go organic, go whole!
  2. Don't eat bad food. No to fatty, oily, saucy food. Go lean, go clean, go clear!
  3. Don't eat too much. Or don't bite more than you can chew. No to overeating. Go ration!
  4. Don't eat too little. No to starvation diets. Go balanced!
  5. Don't eat too fast. No to eating on the go. Go chew!
My Top 5 Weightloss Food
  1. White meat – such as chicken breast and fish have fewer calories than its red meat counterpart, and less caloric intake is one of the first steps to weight loss.
  2. Eggs – are protein rich and pack only 85 calories.
  3. Ampalaya – lowers sugar and blood pressure levels
  4. Brown Rice – is a healthy fiber with medically proven weight loss benefits.
  5. Pepper – Whether it's red hot chili peppers or black pepper corns or bell peppers, it not only spices up food, it also has a thermogenic effect. Simply put, it just means it heats up your metabolism.
My Top 5 Weightloss Drinks
  1. Water – Drinking half a liter of water before meals has been proven to accelerate weight loss.
  2. Flavored Water with L-Carnitine – provides a sweet spin in the flat taste of water. On the other hand, L-Carnitine helps break down calories, and prevents fat build-up in the heart and liver.
  3. Alkaline Water – not only restores the acid balance in the body, but also cleanses the major organs, particularly the colon.
  4. Fresh Buko Juice – is also an alkalizing agent that aids digestion.
  5. Pineapple Juice – contains the enzyme bromelain, which helps in the digestion of protein.
My Top 5 Weightloss Accessories
  1. Sketchers Shape Ups
  2. iPod Nano
  3. Silva Stopwatch and Interval Timer
  4. Nordic Track Weighted Jump Ropes
  5. Nordic Track Sauna Suit

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Why am I posting hubby's note? Because over the summer, all throughout April and May, we turned the 'vacation mode' on. Whatever we lost from October to March, I'm afraid we've gained back. Uh-oh. Well, summer's over. WE MUST GET BACK TO THE PROGRAM. Yes, I say "we." It helps *me* that we do it together. He's disciplined enough to do it on his own, can't say the same for me, hehe.


My Top 5 Benefits of having a Workout / Weight Loss Buddy
  1. Motivation
  2. Safety
  3. Stronger bond
  4. Healthy competition
  5. Greater chances of making it a habit

28 May 2011

ONE OF OUR MARRIAGE'S MANY MIRACLES

For any one who believes in miracles, or needs to read about one today, click here.


RE-POSTING:
Seven years ago, two months after our wedding, I almost lost J to a freak accident.

The doctors gave me only three scenarios, based on the extent of his injuries:
1) He may go blind
2) He may turn into a vegetable
3) He may die

HOW DOES A NEWLYWED RECEIVE SUCH NEWS?


Above: our wedding rings


I remember turning numb.

My silent prayer, "If you're taking him, kunin mo na rin ako, please."
Memories of May 28, 2004 still make me cringe. I'm not sure if I can write about the details. So I won't.

Here's what I want to share instead...I praise God for His miracles! After the 10-hour operation, we didn't have to face any of the three worst-case scenarios laid out to me. Even the doctors were in awe! J was a miracle case!

J can see clearly, he has not lost any of his brain functions and motor skills, he's full of life. HE'S ALIVE!

The worst that happened: his scars from the ala-Face Off operation and his intensified migraines.

Seven years ago, today, I cried my heart out. I experienced crying hanggang wala na akong luha. I'm crying again now. But this time they are tears of joy.


Thank you, J, for choosing to live. He was such a fighter all throughout the ordeal. Even under tremendous pain, he was one happy patient. He made me, all his nurses, doctors and visitors laugh. He was never demanding. All he asked from me were hugs. Ikaw talaga ang idol ko pag dating sa strength.
Thank you to our family and friends, even to strangers, who prayed for us, visited, wished us well. We wouldn't have made it through without your help.

Thank you to his brilliant doctors and caring nurses from St. Luke's. You're God's miracle workers.

Thank you, God, for your miracles! Thank you for reminding me that you won't give us a load we cannot carry. Thank you for loving us as much as you do. Kaya siguro mahal na mahal namin ang isa't-isa. Dahil mahal na mahal mo kami. Your love's overflowing. We'll gladly continue to spread that love.

I can choose to hate May 28 forever. But with the depth of experiences it has brought me, us, I'm celebrating it! We're celebrating it!

Don't be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.-- Grace Hansen



It's a story I won't get tired of re-telling.


THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE ARE FREE...

May, June and July = Hollywood Summer Blockbusters Season! We're doubly excited this year because we'll get to watch the movies, in theaters, for free! Guess how. *wink* Such a simple blessing that's bringing us great joy.

We've seen the following titles for free (Thank you, Free Films Fairy Godmother!) --

On Thor:
I was pleasantly surprised.
Thought it'd be too masculine for me.
I actually enjoyed the adventure.
MUST SIT THROUGH THE END CREDITS!
Something big is coming up.

On Stranger Tides:
Still entertaining.
It's still all about Jack Sparrow's antics.
Penelope Cruz's character is a welcome addition
to the franchise.

On Kung Fu Panda 2:
A MUST SEE!
It was a visual feast.
The storyline's so much darker, richer,
but still apt for children.
Loads of action, humor and life lessons.
Made me cry -- thrice.
If you're close to me you'll know why.



Looking forward to more free movie dates! X-Men, Green Lantern, Transformers: Dark of the Moon, Cars 2, Captain America...