"What I know for sure: Often we don't even realize who we're meant to be because we're so busy trying to live out someone else's ideas. But other people and their opinions hold no power in defining our destiny.
What has made me successful is the ability to surrender my plans, dreams, and goals to a power that's greater than other people and greater than myself.
Before making any major moves, I first ask: What would you have me do? Who would you have me be?
And then I try to live the answer."
-- Oprah, from the O magazine